7 Ways to Enhance Male Orgasms

You know, there's a difference between strong, powerful orgasms and more frequent orgasms for your girlfriend. While you may like to read between the two (and aim for the former!), have you also considered the different levels of happiness you may experience? Experts say male and female orgasms involve different parts of your body, but no more than the other in every way.

For women, orgasm is produced by direct stimulation of the clitoris or G-spot, felt and described as waves of pleasure throughout the body, and a series of contractions felt through the vagina. Uterus, The anus, cervix, and genitals are 0.8 seconds apart. The average woman takes about 15 to 20 minutes to orgasm.

Male orgasm involves contractions of the PC muscles, perineum, anus, and penis, as well as the sensation of pumping and/or throbbing. It takes the average man three to five minutes to orgasm, and the sensation of ejaculation can enhance orgasm. It’s important to remember ejaculation and orgasm are two separate events because a man can orgasm without ejaculating.

So, how can you enhance your male orgasm and make yourself better? Here are some tips for you:

1. Breathe more

Most people—both men and women—have a tendency to hold their breath during orgasm. “Holding your breath prevents the depth and intensity of orgasm that can be enhanced and amplified by breathing slowly and deeply. When you feel yourself climaxing, remember to take a deep breath through your belly and count to Four, then slowly exhale through your mouth to count to four, letting your breath through the wave of orgasm," says Nelson. "This breathing work will help amplify the sensation of orgasm and spread that satisfaction throughout the body." In fact, if you can learn how to control your breath and focus on it, you will experience higher, more intense sensations.

2. Get out of your head

Both Sinclair and Nielsen say that the key to a male orgasm is to let yourself go, and if you find yourself getting sluggish, you won't always have the best orgasm experience possible. While you might be able to "done" - so to speak - if you're really looking for an explosive experience that will take you (and your partner) to the next level, exploring toys like the one below might be the way to turn you on tickets for tickets. Freedom of thought and sex to a place you've never been before.

3. Don't be afraid to try

You might be a little shy and hesitant to let your girl play some backdoor games. It’s not just stroking the penis, it’s building arousal and pleasure. You and your partner can start by touching, biting on the nipple, licking, the thigh, entire penis and belly, from the base to the shaft and tip to the scrotum, and the perineum. "This helps expand sexual boundaries or routines to include new and mixed levels of happiness." Opening up your boundaries and limitations may strengthen your orgasm even more.

4. Stop and start again

"Men can sometimes go from erection to ejaculation very quickly and then rush over," Nelson said. "But it's important to slow down and pay attention to arousal and sexual energy." How do you do that? Instead of succumbing to feeling ahem, horny, and you're still trying to get yourself excited, Nelson recommends tuning in to every one of your senses. "Try prolonging the sensation of arousal and masturbation or thrust until you feel sexual energy build-up, then stop. Start squeezing the tip or bottom of the penis until you feel the urge to subside," says Nelson. "Try this three or four times during self-pleasure or sexual intercourse, as it increases and maintains that wonderful sense of pleasure and overall sexual stamina."

5. Try a cock ring or ball stretcher

It's not that you can't get a killer experience with your partner's hands, body, and mouth, but when paired with a toy that's made for one purpose - and only one - you can experience it like never before. Here are some fun gadgets to consider, especially if you're in the market for the best sex of your life (hey, who isn't?)

You can get yourself off go in less than a minute if you want - but it won't make your sex life with your partner any better. In fact, it might make things worse for her and you. You should always be innovative when you're masturbating. "Some cock rings have attachments that vibrate on the ball to free up your hands for other things," she says. "Or you could try a ball stretcher - it sounds scarier than it actually is. If you want, you can attach this unit to your ball and it will pull the ball for you while you work out your cock."

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6. Try a penis pump

A lot of men have trouble maintaining an erection, or they’re just not happy with the size of the erection. Penis pumps are a great way to really perk up before sex, and when used with a penis ring, they can make you feel more comfortable than usual for longer lasting.

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7. Using a prostate massager for male anal orgasm

“Prostate massagers are male anal orgasms and will be an integral part of your toy box. They come in different thicknesses, but most of them for male anal orgasms are usually thin, with bulbous ends, specifically designed to slip easily into the anus and stimulate the prostate. They're smooth, lightweight and easy to maintain, and deliver the most intense orgasms," Sinclaire says.

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